Still no words…

The Dad handling J and his wife’s money is not going so well. It had been less than 3 weeks and they are already behind more than $800. My daughter in law thinks she is entitled to a certain standard of living. Bills are an afterthought. The only good news to come out of it is that J has now been cigarette free for 29 days. I am proud of him.

Other Grandma

I am on my run-away right now. I just called home to check in and found out that his other grandmother is visiting him. She came for his birthday in August and besides that, has not been to see him since March. The next court date is October 4th. It is amazing what a motivator a court day can be.

The Older Crew

Since Booboo received court papers to show cause on October 4 as to why MK’s motion for sole custody of Malachi should not be granted, Booboo has been here once or twice a day 5 days a week. That is much more than he had been here when they were an item. He can’t be working in the city. His parents are not even returning phone calls at this point. MK is still attending therapy twice a week and it seems to be helping.

The Dad was in Michigan for a week and found a house to buy. J and his wife will live there. X is thrilled.

This is his new backyard. The Dad says he is taking over their money and will stop them from pissing it way. I have serious doubts. The Dad can’t keep track of our bills once a month- it is more like once every two or three months.

I have such mixed emotions right now, I am not going to try to put it into words. When I can put it into words, I will be back. Until then, my attention goes to my little ones.